How To Stop Your Girlfriend From Breaking Up With You

So you suspect that it's about over, or it is over according to her anyway. Don't despair as there are ways that you can stop your girlfriend from breaking up with you.

This is what you should never do:

• Do not whine, cry, beg her to take you back or act like a whimp. This never works. It only shows her how immature and needy you are. Women do not like immature or needy men.
• Do not chase her or stalk her. She will only run farther away from you.
• Do not constantly call, text or e-mail her.
• Do not write derogatory things about her on the Internet.
• Do not threaten or harass her in any way.
• Do not complain to her friends and family about the breakup.
• Do not purposely hang out in places that she will be.
• Do not go to her house or place of employment.
• Do not try to make her jealous.
  

If you are doing any of the above, you should stop it immediately. This is only making things worse for your chance to ever get back together.

This is what you should be doing:

• Get on with your life. Go out with friends and have some fun.
• If you do see her out somewhere and she comes up to you to talk, make small talk with her and then leave like you're late for something important.
• If she calls you on the phone or leaves you a text or e-mail, don't respond immediately. Wait awhile when you "have the time".
• Act cool around her, like the breakup doesn't matter.

I know these things will be hard to do when all you really want is to have her back. But it will be to your advantage in the long run. What happens is that she will know that she is no longer in control of your life, that you are having fun without her and she won't be able to stand it. When she makes the first move back to you, I know that you will be jumping up and down inside, but don't let her know it. You still have to be Mr. Cool for awhile and she will be the one trying to get you back.

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All The Best, Joeley

How To Win With Women At Work

Relationships in the workplace seem to be a hot topic, so I'll address this question next. Instead of having to repeat myself about the particulars of dating in the workplace, please read the first 4 paragraphs of the post below before continuing.

Now guys, you want to win over a woman at work. This is normal because many times we feel attracted to someone that we spend a lot of time with, such as the workplace. Now I am going to repeat myself here. If the woman that you are attracted to is married or in a relationship, do not attempt to win her over. There are many single women out there so you don't have to mess up someone's marriage. And it just isn't right.

Now to win with women at work here is what you need to do. First you need to look presentable. Shower, shave and do whatever you need to do to look nice. Women don't want a man that has bad hygiene or looks like they just rolled out of bed.

When you approach a woman you need to be confident, but not cocky or a know-it-all. Don't dominate the conversation and don't just talk about yourself. However you don't want to be a meek little lamb either. Add to the conversation, don't dominate it.

What many women find attractive in a man is self confidence, a great personality, humor and to be a good listener. You don't have to have movie star looks to win with women, you just have to treat them right.

All The Best, Joeley

How To Attract Guy At Work

Many people will tell you that it isn't a good idea to start a relationship at work. I am not one of those people. However, there are some factors that you should consider before you dazzle him with your charm.

First of all before doing anything else, find out about your company's policy of dating within the workplace. Some companies frown upon it, others forbid it, and then there are some that could care less.

Also if this guy is your boss, or you are his boss, this is not a good thing. Bosses dating their employees are usually a big no-no within companies anyway, and it will most likely cause friction between you and the other employees if you are dating the boss.

Next, make sure that the guy you're interested in isn't married or in a relationship already. If he is, then forget about him. If he isn't, then he is fair game.

Now that you have the particulars out of the way, it's time to start attracting that hot guy at work.

This will sound grade school, but it is important. If you are out to attract a guy, make sure that you present yourself well. Bathe or shower regularly, fix your hair, put on some makeup if you wear it and dress nicely. Now I'm not saying that you should go to work all dolled up like you're ready to go to a ball, but take some pride in your appearance. No one is attracted to a slob.

Now you need to make your first move. This will be easy as you both have something in common already. You work together. When you get the chance, (or make one, but don't look too obvious), ask him a work related question. Something like, "do you know what tomorrow's meeting is about" (only of course if you are having a meeting), or "do you know if the schedule is up yet", or "do you think these fries are done"? You get the picture. After you make that first move, then you will be more comfortable the next time that you strike up a conversation.

I can't tell you what to say, you just have to play it by ear. However the best advice I can give you is this: do not gripe and complain about everything, do not act too eager or too interested, do not dominate the conversation, do not gossip about other workers and go on and on about how much you hate your job.

The best thing that you can do to attract a guy is to be pleasant, smile a lot, act like you are really interested in what he is saying, have self confidence and be someone that he wants to be around.

Sometimes it's not the best thing to get involved in a relationship at work, but many people have met their spouses that way and it's easy to see why. You are at the workplace for several hours a day and sometimes do not get the chance to meet people any other way. So it can be a good thing, and best of all you know he has a job.

All The Best, Joeley

How Can You Tell If A Women Is In Love

I take it that you mean if she is in love with you. If a woman is in love with you she will do whatever she can to make you happy, she will think that you hung the moon and she will get that little goofy grin on her face and a sparkle in her eye every time she sees you.

All The Best, Joeley

Who Is Joeley James Anyway?

That's me and I am here to give you advice on love, marriage, romance, sex and other related matters. I am not a doctor, psychologist, psychiatrist or anything else that requires a degree. Who I am is a woman that does not mince words and I will give it to you straight.

So what gives me the authority to give advice? I guess nothing, but I have been around the block a few times and I feel that sometimes people just need to hear the truth. I am a neutral party and this is just my opinion. Take it or leave it. I by no way expect you to take everything I say as gospel, and I will never intentionally offend anyone, but it will at least give you something to think about. Maybe a different perspective on things.

This site is clearly for advice purposes and due to time constraints and other factors, I can not write a book for every question. So once in a while I may recommend a product that I believe can help you further with your problem. I only recommend products that are up to my standards (which are pretty high), and I will not try to sell you something just to make a buck. If I think that a certain product will be useful to you, I will add a link to the post.

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